Living life deliberately and leading others effectively depend on doing what matters most. Each of us defines this differently, which accounts for our unique contributions to the world.
At the heart of what is most important to each of us are some bed rock principles that serve as an internal GPS to keep us oriented in our daily dance of living. The same is true of organizations. Leaders who are focused on what matters most cultivate cultural norms that enable their teams to deliver with congruence the value promised to customers.
As a coach I work with individuals and organizations that are momentarily overwhelmed or stymied. Often, these are busy clients for whom unforeseen events land on an already extended schedule. I dare say it happens to each of us at some point. The result is a crisis, and in the fog of the moment we lose our bearings.
I have found that one of the most effective tactics is to have clients revisit and clarify their values. It sounds so basic, and it is. At the same time, it is very effective in breaking through the muddle to focus on the essentials. When life gets too complex, we need a way to simplify, to return to basics.
For each of us there are 3-4 core values that matter most in our lives. If we are momentarily overwhelmed or seeking clarity in making an important decision, reclaiming and reaffirming them can provide a lens that helps us see our way through.
What are the four values that matter most to you?
Bob, what you’re writing about– unforseen events and the resulting overwhelm – is so important and I believe it is widespread. i’m beginning to call those events “out of left field,” and they are more and more frequent as I age… My friends are saying the same. So your suggestions about focusing on values are really helpful and I’ll also use it in my own teaching this fall.
Bless you, and always love,
Anne
Having absorbed more than your share of unforeseen events “out of left field,” your perspectives will enhance anyone’s journey.
So true, and so similar to the conversation I had with myself just this morning !!!!
Helpful to hear it from an “outside” source
Any synchronicity going on here?