Sometimes, when adversity threatens to overwhelm the spirit, focusing on a simple task can bring us back to center.
There is much to weigh us down in life, from personal challenges to the daily bombardment of media images and commentary. The devastation from recent wildfires and flooding is a case in point.
How do we bring ourselves back to center? One dramatic example occurred in the outpouring of assistance in the wake of Harvey. It was an inspiring glimpse of our better angels transcending the demons that normally divide us.
Most of us regain our footing through the routines of nurturing our families, caring for our animals, volunteering for causes we believe in, pursuing hobbies or practicing yoga. I have found another form of meditation.
We heat with wood, and I split most of it by hand, a little each day. One of the storms last winter brought down some trees in our forest. Before the black flies arrived in May I bucked up the trunks and limbs into stove length rounds. Last week I began retrieving them to split and stack on the woodpile. The tractor access stopped 45 yards short. This meant carrying the rounds and returning the same distance for the next load. Viewed from one lens, it was a highly inefficient process.
Earlier in life impatience would have led me to desist. Last week I slowed my pace and coordinated it with my breathing. I lifted only manageable loads. I used the many return trips to appreciate how much joy I felt walking among the trees. I have the time to do this now. The woods nourish me aesthetically, and they feed my provider persona.
Maybe the reset boils down to this: pay attention and be grateful for the abundance in the moment.
Hello My Dear Friend Bob! Love reading your reflection on wood…when I was a kid, I loved being sent out to the sheep stables to retrieve as much wood as I could carry…one of those LLBean wood carriers…I loved finding the right size pieces….and always started with a big fat square piece and then settled little guys in around. I did not, however, like being sent out to collect eggs….I was scared of the chickens that tried to peck me! I need a wood pile in my life again…..Love to you and Peggy.
So good to hear from you, Lisa. Peggy and I have such fond memories of your place in Etna and you and your family in it. We’d love to share our wood pile with you any time you come east! Loving back at you…
Thank you, Bob. That is a beautiful woodpile and a beautiful reminder that peace and enjoyment are available in many circumstances that first present as annoyance. Such a site is not part of my every day now (we keep just a small fireplace pile). It was a big part of my childhood. We “played woodpile” many weekends as a family using my Dad’s red, rusted, Willys Jeep to haul from the woods near our home. I didn’t appreciate the “game” then. Now it brings all fond memories. -Allison
Your recounting of your own family’s childhood game of woodpile brings a smile and the reminders that Peggy and I often get from our own children who recall with undisguised aversion many trips to our woodpile in their youth. Regardless, it must have made a positive impression in part, as two of the four heat with wood today and wrestle it to and from the woodpile!
This is great, Bob. I, too, have recently taken the option when I feel overwhelmed by the difficulty of my situation to turn that which I can find to be positive about. I turn to gratitude as my meditation. Peace depends on what you give your attention to and I can always find something to be grateful for. Stacking wood has always been very calming for me, too. Thank you for your inspiration…always.
I love your comment, Lauren: “I turn to gratitude as my mediation. Peace depends on what you give your attention to.” It is a great reminder to us all. Blessings.
Oh Bob yes yes yes. It’s right up there with laundry and ironing (yes I still do that!). I still get a great sense of pride from a shirt well ironed!! It’s those little successes! Add ’em up each day. I’m off to the dump to clear the garage of all the trash!!😇
Your comment brings to mind a favorite quote from Kahlil Gibran: “In the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.” While that applies best to the way we treat each other in our relationships, it also applies to our attitude toward performing the daily tasks that must be done. Looking forward to seeing you and Sandy soon.