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I have not posted since May, questioning if any words could hold a truth sufficiently poignant to penetrate our cultural and political battle lines, even for a moment’s insight. In addition, what words of solace would be sufficient for so much sacrifice and loss attending the arrival of the virus?
Gratefully, with the new year turning, a muse for the morning appeared, pushing my fear aside, at least for the moment. In a compilation of selections from her many works, [1] Toni Morrison’s reflections on writing itself remind me why I continue to try.
All water has a perfect memory
and is forever trying to get back
to where it was. Writers are like that:
remembering where we were,
what valley we ran through,
what the banks were like,
the light that was there and the route back
to our original place.
And then, she captures the aspiration of those of us intrigued by words and the quest of combining them in ways that reveal new awareness.
There, in the process of writing,
was the illusion, the deception of control,
of nestling up ever closer to meaning.
Perhaps the most moving reminder to each of us during this season of continuing loss is a pro-active response within our power to undertake.
It is sheer good fortune to miss somebody
long before they leave you.
Separated by distances, masks and quarantines, whom do we miss? What gestures of outreach and connection might it take to “miss them” long before we leave each other?
[1] The Measure of Our Lives: A Gathering of Wisdom (Alfred K. Knopf, 2019), pp. 29, 26 and 28.
Thinking of you Bob. Quote about water returning to it’s beginnings particularly meaningful…sharing a New Year’s wish with someone from 65 years ago…kind of like going back to the beginning when we had dreams, goals, and journeys ahead of us and no real sense of who we would become. Route back to the beginning…I find myself remembering those times more than ever and hoping there is an opportunity to get back together in the coming year. Best wishes for a safe and healthy 2021. Fondly, Janet
What a treat to hear from you, Janet. Having received two responses, I hope you will accept that I combined them into one. I resonate to your comment – “kind of like going back to the beginning when we had dreams, goals, and journeys ahead of us.” Would love to catch up on the person you have become and the events and people who influenced you and shared your journey. Will drop you a note offline. Warm wishes for a safe path in 2021 and the hope that the vaccine will get to all of us in time for a fall gathering. Bob
So good to hear your “voice” Bob. Thank you for sharing and God’s blessing wishes for you in 2021 for a much better year and being able to see, love and hug others, without fear.
Lisa
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Great to hear from you as well, Lisa. I share your blessing wish for all of us as the year unfolds. Best to you and your family.