Each of us writes our life’s narrative. Have you ever wondered why certain people have shown up in it? — those who lifted you up, those who darkened your days or those who left you wondering?
The closing of a year provides a timely opportunity to ask ourselves, “who were/are these people to me?”
Our stories have many purposes. They relay information and interpret events. They entertain. They also define us as individuals and communities.
Have you noticed that many of the most memorable stories are populated by distinctive characters? Often, they seem larger than life, exaggerated versions of our fears and foibles, our hopes and dreams. In most stories, and certainly in our own lives, the characters we meet often play a special role.
Reflect for a moment. Who were Tiresias, the Sirens and Cyclops to Odysseus? Who were the White Rabbit, the Cheshire cat and the Mad Hatter to Alice? Who were the Winged Monkeys, Glinda and Oz to Dorothy? Who were Yoda, Princess Leia and Darth Vader to Luke Skywalker?
In each case the characters represent more than their physical appearance. They tweak our curiosity. They threaten us and stoke our fears. They surprise us with insights and new possibilities. They tap our imaginations. They show us our courage when our knees are weak.
They are gatekeepers to the world of shadows and enlightenment. They are guardians of crucial information. They are guides who provide protection and encourage us to see the precious jewels in adversity. They help us see the essence of who we are.
Who are the main characters who populate your narrative? What was/is the meaning of their presence? Who are those who had/have the most impact on your life? What did/do they teach you about yourself and your journey?
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This was an interesting essay and I am enjoying thinking about it. Thanks
Are you focusing on the role of anyone in particular in your life? I have found the exercise very illuminating; it’s providing perspective on some people and events as I look back over the years. I hope this year continues to unfold for you with a sustaining momentum.
Loved this so much, and have also been having similar aha’s. At this point in my life I’m becoming so aware of how people and places and sometimes the smallest of events or consequences have impacted my life in the present moment. They are all there, and have become a part of my story. How powerful are our smallest gestures and interactions in the world … how great the opportunities to touch each other!
Your beautiful comment, Deb, calls to mind some words of Kahlil Gibran on Friendship: “For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.” All the best in the coming year.
I love this Bob. You were one of the beautiful souls who showed up at the exact moment in my life and encouraged me to dream and own the vision that simply seemed to big to dream. You and Peggy will forever be a special part of my written story. I am forever greatful for you both.
Who knows whose lives we are meant to touch, Kim? I celebrate our connection. I also celebrate the many lives you have touched and continue to impact with your healing work and the compassionate vision that led to it. Blessings today and in the coming year. Bob