I am spending time these days sorting through stuff. What to keep and what to release? It is a worthy task for any decade but even more so in our later years.
The accumulation of what we once thought important enough to lug around collides with the knowledge of the way life turned out. Fewer “rainy days” remain, and what is wanted now, much less needed, may not be what we saved long ago.
As a “Jack” of many trades I have collected much: shelves of books; files of weddings, sermons and eulogies from days of ministry; course syllabi and curricula from teaching; plans, proposals and publications from leadership roles; speeches and correspondence.
To be honest, in addition to easing the load on those who must deal with this stuff when I depart, the sorting provides an opportunity to revisit the story I tell myself. Wouldn’t most of us want to emphasize the times when our better angels prevailed?
Then there are the forgotten jewels. During an unsettling transition in my twenties I bought a pricey camera to explore an interest in photography. Two of the boxes I am culling contain slides, negatives, and photos that I developed and printed from that period.
There are family members, friends and landscapes; moments of play and laughter, music and fellowship – images of my life frozen, preserved and now re-presented to delight and refresh an aging memory.
Each still-life frames a gift with which I am blessed – loving relationships, connections to the earth, a quest for meaning and opportunities for service. These treasures reinforce the core values of my story and justify the effort to lug this stuff around all these years.
And you? What is the weight of stuff you carry? Is it a burden or a boon?
As I grow older, and hopefully wiser, I find the purge of things feels enriching because I get to pass along some of the things to people who can make use of them, give items with sentimental value to my family who appreciate the content and connection with their elders, and in general, lighten my physical load. Lord knows I’ve got enough of other types of loads to release as well, which also happens with regularity!
Thank you for the thoughtful and thought-provoking post Bob!
Great suggestions, Glenn, for recycling items to those who can appreciate the “stuff” for either utilitarian or sentimental reasons. Releasing the burden of “other types of loads” is equally if not more important in my mind. All the best to you and Ashara.
This is so very real Bob and such a precious process: sometimes rejoicing, sometimes grieving, always rediscovering our truth and values. Thank you for companioning me in this way on this part of the journey. With great love, Anne
I celebrate all that we have shared in the past and currently and give thanks for your curiosity, honesty, courage and inspiration. Much love…
Great post, Bob
Thanks, BB, for reading and affirming it. Hope all is well with you.
So relevant and beautifully written. Thanks >
Grateful for your comment. So many treasures when we raise them up.
Thank you Bob! M
Ready or not, I guess the time comes, right? It’s easier sharing the load when we travel the road together.